I vasilated for weeks before making the initial contact with 4 Pillars....much to my relief, every member of Bengi's team was more than thoughtful and understanding of the circumstances that led me to them.....the entire process was made easy because of the compassion (rather than anticipated judgement)....i was soon to see that I could overcome my situation with new awareness and skills that have helped me rise above the circumstances that at one point kept my stress level at an all time high....now I see clearly the light at the end of the tunnel...i have learned through this process and have Bengi and his awesome Team of compassionate and caring workers to thank for helping me hold my head high and move confidently forward, one step at a time.....